Thursday, October 14, 2010

La Vie Est Belle

So, it's been a month since I said goodbye to blogging, but, before I left, I did promise to keep you updated on three things:

  1. When my book was out.
  2. When I got another sibling.
  3. When I said goodbye to spinsterdom. 
Two out of three ain't bad. =)


Joyfully at Home is complete! You can have a gander at it yourself right here. You can also track news about the book on its Facebook page, and become a fan for (semi-regular sometimes, and downright sporadic at others) updates. 

However, the day I saw my book on Vision Forum's website, my author-news was quickly overshadowed by something even more exciting: as I write, my parents are on their way to Georgia to meet the newest addition to the Baucham family (a sister at last!) Safya Caimile! You can read Daddy's account here to hear more about her, and to see her precious picture. I've been a big sister for the past seventeen years (five times over!), but I'm quite excited and quite sobered to have a little sister. My heart's desire is that the Lord would draw her to himself, that he would guide her steps, and that, as she is conformed to the image of his Son, she would be able to stay away from the stereotypes and pressures that would distract her from seeking the Lord above all else. 

This is a happy time!
Cousins!
My cousin Kyndel just finished up her associate's degree at Le Cordon Bleu, and came down to spend a whole month with us before heading back to Dallas to finish up her Bachelor's. I have had such a precious time with her, from learning how to improvise in the kitchen (I'm a stick-to-the-recipe kind of girl,  but cooking with a chef is aiding my flexibility), to aiming spending time together in God's Word each day, to going downtown to see a play together (Peter Pan!), to laughing... uproariously and constantly. 

I recently took over the booking department for VBM, which has been an interesting and exciting challenge. College continues, though my pace has slowed considerably these days. Tutoring is great fun (The Iliad and the Odyssey are up after loads of fun with Shakespeare), I don't miss blogging a stitch, but I have enjoyed starting to write fiction again, big-sister-ing is ever a blessing (recently read Shepherding a Child's Heart -very inspired), church life stays busy (our annual conference is just around the corner -Paul Washer is coming!), and God remains good to teach and to grow: every day presents a myriad of opportunities to learn the timeless truths of his Word. 

All of this said, I hope that your fall has been blessed as well, and pray that those who do purchase my  book will be encouraged by what they read there! Something I've been reminded of lately, again and again, is that the most important thing people should know about me isn't that I live at home. Foremost, I am a great sinner, and Christ is a great Savior. There is no message as important for any sphere of society to hear than the gospel of Christ, and anything I say that does not stem from this understanding is utterly worthless and harmful. We must ache to be passionate about him, foremost and all-encompassing. We must ache to proclaim the message that transforms hearts, not simply the behavioral modification that turns virtues into idols and whitewashes open graves. 

Before we can be joyful at home, we must be joyful in Christ. Before we can strive to bless our families, we must strive to be satisfied in Him. Wherever the Lord has placed us -wherever he has led us -if our desire is not to submit ourselves wholly and completely to the all-consuming passion that is impossible to compartmentalize (2 Cor. 5:17, Rom. 12:1-2)... we are not walking in righteousness, and we are idolaters. I really hope people walk away from Joyfully at Home (the blog and the book) knowing that my love for Christ is central in all that I do.

Okay, so, as you can see, even though I haven't been blogging, my mind is still moving in ten thousand different directions at once. A friend recently asked me if I ever stop thinking -I'm philosophizing in my dreams. The only difference is that I'm writing my inner-dialogue down in journals instead of online. It's a nice change of pace, and, for now, I wouldn't trade my status quo for anything. 

May we all be as joyful walking the paths that the Lord has ordained!

I'll be back someday when I trade my four little men for a Prince Charming, as promised. We'll see who's still around to hear the news (could be five years from now, could be fifteen...) I'll check in at least twenty years from now either way to let you know if I started a family or if I'm living above my parents' garage, reciting Shakespeare to my canary, taking my Great Dane Atticus on long walks in Rice Village, using all of the goodies in my hopechest, and enjoying my prestigious staff position at one of Houston's amazing museums *cough*

Until engagement or forty, then =), 
Jasmine 


43 comments:

  1. Beautiful post, Jasmine! I am always blessed by your writing! I miss your blog but am excited to read your book and that you are finding such joy and contentment in serving Christ by ministering to your family!
    Blessings! And have a great time being a big sister to a sister (I have three smaller) --it is such a joy!

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  2. Wow Jasmine!
    Congrats on your book! I can't wait to read it!
    Can't wait to see pictures of your little sister either!! How old is she?
    -Allison

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  3. It is good to hear from you, Jasmine!

    I can't wait to read your book!

    And congratulations on your little sister. :) Sisters are WONDERFUL!

    love in Christ,
    Gabrielle

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  4. I have Josephine March's exclamations running through my mind: "I'm an author! I'm an author!" Wow...you my dear have accomplished a lifelong dream, and I'm so proud of you! How incredibly exciting.
    And that beautiful, precious bundle of gorgeousness that is Safya (what a lovely name!)--you're going to be a wonderful big sister to her. I know it right down to my toes!
    Have fun with your brothers, your cousin, the kitchen, and your wild berry skittles--I'm hoping and praying with you that Safya will be able to come home soon!

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  5. Congrats on your little sister!! I'm looking forward to reading your book - your blog has always been an encouragement, and I've missed reading your thoughts!

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  6. Oh, Jasmine!! I was so excited when your blog post popped up on my google reader this morning! And then when I saw that your book is finally published, I was even more excited =) I can't wait to read it.

    Congrats on having a little sister. How wonderful!!

    Looks like life is good...your update was thoroughly enjoyed. Thank you much! Oh, and Paul Washer is coming to your church conference? Wow, wish I was going to be there...

    Blessings~
    Amy

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  7. Jasmine~

    I have been so blessed by the few months that I have read your blog. Can't wait to get your book !!!!!!!!!!!! :)

    Vienna Jacobson
    Piano4Jesus@gmail.com

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  8. What a momentous day in the Baucham household that must have been! I'd heard of your little sister yesterday, and was so thrilled for you and your family! She is going to be one little princess amidst all the princes!(-:
    And congratulations on this huge accomplishment of your book. How fabulous that must feel! I can't wait to read it--at least I'll have something to tide me over for the next twenty years! (-;

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  9. Praising the Lord for your new little sister and new book!

    Amen to having the Lord first in EVERYTHING and being content in Christ FIRST...that is very evident in your life which is why you are so inspiring to me:)

    BLESSINGS to you ~ it was great to read your post again:) And I look forward very much to getting my own copy of your book!!

    Love in Christ,
    Jenna

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  10. SWEET! I am so excited by all your news! Looking very forward to getting my hands on a copy of your book and so so excited and happy to say congratulations to your entire family on your newest addition of a precious little girl. Yippee! :)

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  11. Congratulations on your new addition, Jasmine!!! Good to hear from you again, and can't wait to get the book!

    Love in Christ,
    Sydney

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  12. Beautiful photos! I'm off to read more about your little sister. There isn't anything more exciting and wonderful than little sisters...no, ma'am. :o)

    And now I get to buy ten copies of your book! Huzzah! (I guess that means I must start babysitting more, to finance such a project....)

    Bless you, Jasmine!

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  13. SO good to read a post on your blog!!! Too bad it can't be more often... Congrats on being a big sister to a little girl!!! I have four younger sisters (and two younger brothers) and, let me tell you, setting an example and being the ideal "big sissie" is a HUGE challenge... but I know you'll be great!!!

    I also can't wait to read your book! How exciting!


    God bless!!!
    Rachel

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  14. Jasmine, this post makes me happy! Not so much because you actually posted, but because of what it contains. :)

    I love to see how you are living joyfully at home, completely and happily resigned to where God has you now - and quite contentedly at that. Your cousin gets this amazing opportunity this week to spend time with you - I'm a wee bit jealous of her. :)

    I can't wait to read your book - hmm, my birthday is coming up in a few days, we shall see...haha. And can't wait to hear more about your little sister ~ I'm SO excited for you! Sisters are the BEST! I have 3 younger sisters myself. :) It's a challenge being a big sister, but then...you already know that. =)

    Love you so much and am so thankful for your example.

    Oh, and I love how you said "you'll at least hear from me in 20 years" - LOL, I was wondering to myself what blogging will look like in 20 years...will it even be around. haha. It was just an interesting thought. :)

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  15. Congrats on the Beautiful little sister!!!! I have been waiting and waiting for the unveiling of y our book :) Your blog has been such a great inspiration for me in my journey in biblical woman hood. Even though I am still waiting on my Prince Charming and I am still at home you have shown me how to find joy in my situation and Love the Lord Wholeheartedly!!!! I can never thank you enough!

    Love in Christ,
    Kelsye

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  16. "We must ache to proclaim the message that transforms hearts, not simply the behavioral modification that turns virtues into idols and whitewashes open graves."

    That's my new favourite quote...everything has to flow from Christ, otherwise it's meaningless and even harmful!

    I can't wait to read your book - it sounds like a good read :)

    God bless.

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  17. Congrats!!!!! Can't wait to read the new book! My best friend is like me, planning to stay at home serving her family until marriage, but she's feeling "stuck" right now. I have a feeling that this is just what she needs.

    SOOOOO EXCITED about Safya! Just think, as I'm sure you already have, your home will have a different feeling now. I'm sure that they are, but I think you'll know what I mean when I say that Safya will bring out the gentler side of the little guys.

    Do have a request though. Please put up some pictures in a few weeks. I know we'd all LOVE to see her! (And I'm sure you'd love to show her off! ;))

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  18. We are excited about your baby sister! My three girls ALL squealed when I told them.
    Your words about the foremost message were pertinent this morning. Thank you.
    Congratulations on the book!

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  19. Congratulations Jasmine! What a blessing to have a little sister, as well as all those little men! I'll be praying for you family as the adoption is finalized!
    Blessings, Jordanna
    PS Congrats on the book, too ;)

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  20. Congrats on your new little sister! That is so exciting!
    And of course, congratulations on the book as well! That is a great accomplishment and I know many will be blessed by it. I love how the cover matches your blog! :-)

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  21. Jasmine,
    I am *SO* very excited to read your new book! It looks and sounds so wonderful and the cover is so nice, too! I am so excited to read it sometime soon!

    And congrats on a new sister! You must be so excited. I have three younger brothers who are absolutely *wonderful*, but I would love to have a sister someday, if the Lord wills! But for now I am content with LOTS of sisters in Jesus!

    Well, thanks for the update! I miss your updates here on the blog, but look forward to reading your book! Oh, and it will be nice to hear when the 3rd item on the list happens, too! :)

    Blessings!
    Elizabeth

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  22. Congrats on the book and the baby sister. She is too adorable. Once she starts walking, hide your makeup and hair things.

    Maybe it's covered in your book, but, how or where do you meet eligible young men? I understand you are waiting on God's good timing for the one, but where do you meet interesting young men? Church? Volunteer work? Book signing promotions? People who don't do the courting thing are curious?

    Latoya Kim

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  23. I am so thrilled for you about your little sister!!! Amazing!
    I already bought your book from Vision Forum too!
    Missing you,
    Alanna

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  24. Congratulations on your book and new baby sister... oh, and welcome back!

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  25. Jasmine,

    CONGRADULATIONS on your sister! I have two younger sisters and they are one of hte greatest joys of my life! I am also extremely excited to read your book. You have both encouraged and convicted me with this blog. Thank you for your example and your advice! God bless you, my sister in Christ

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  26. Congratulations on your book and baby sister! You must feel so blessed! Thanks for all the encouragement you inspire.

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  27. Yay Jasmine!!!! Your book will definitely be on my Christmas wish-list!!! Anyway, congratulations on the news of a little sister!!! It is quite a blessing for the Lord to have given this to you, I will quite agree on that! :D Also, please don't be discouraged on the fact that you are not yet engaged--that's OK, and is truly a beautiful thing in the site of the Lord!!!! I'm sure you know that, but I wanted to offer the encouragement to you anyway. Truly, Jasmine, though marriage to a human is a lovely and sweet thing, I must confess that marriage to the Holy One is FAR more sweet and lovely and fulfilling!!!! My "marriage" to the sweet Lord Jesus has fulfilled and blessed me way more than any relationship with a boy ever did. Oh, WHY am I rambling to you?! Of COURSE you already know this!!!! But anyway, my ramblings shall cease and may you have a lovely day serving your husband, the Lord. I love you Jasmine and I'll be praying for you and your future husband, as I already have!!!! God bless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ~Emily~

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  28. Wonderful news on the new little Baucham girl! And congratulations on the publishing of your book--I'm sure many people will be blessed by it! As to the 3rd eventual life update, my prediction is that we'll hear from you within 5 years, yet we'll see what God has planned. :)

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  29. I'm so EXCITED for you! Just so you know, the fact that your book is finished gives me hope that my book might be finished... sometime before I die, hopefully ;) !

    I have a question, though... Is Vision Forum the only place that you can get your book from? Just curious...

    In Christ,
    Sefra Schwab
    Book-lover and aspiring author

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  30. I know this is one of the lesser things you mentioned, but...I'm very jealous that you're going to get to hear Paul Washer in person! =)

    That said...I'm so excited that you get to be a big sister to a sister. What a precious privilege!

    And, of course, I'm thrilled to read your book...will be thrilled again if someday you publish some of your new-found fiction! =)

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  31. I saw your book in the Vision Forum catalog today! Congrats! :)

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  32. I haven't had a chance to visit your blog in a while. To busy with CP, life, and all the wonderful things God has sent my way. Got Vision Forums catalog in the mail yesterday, saw your book, and came running to see the promised post. :) I can't wait to read your book. I have hinted that it would make a great Christmas gift.

    What joy! A little sister. I will be praying for you and yours. So exciting, and she is so beautiful! I love babies. :)

    May God continue to grow in you.
    In Him,
    Kathryn

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  33. Miss Jasmnine,
    Your books looks wonderful and we are thankful for your perseverance in completing it!
    Will you be offering any autographed copies? If so , we would love to have one to give as a Christmas gift to a certain 17 year old daughter! :-)
    Thanks so much!

    MRSC

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  34. Amen, Amen, Amen. I will have to read your book. Right now I am graduated and sixteen and learning to be joyfully at home.

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  35. Can't wait to get my hands on a copy of your book! :)

    So excited for you to get a sister! Surely you'll update at least ONCE before you're married (or 40 ;) so that we can see a picture of Safya?!

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  36. It's so great to see an update from you.

    This is the first time I've visited your site in awhile, and I was surprised to see that you've suspended it! I completely understand, but it was a bit of a bummer. I always appreciated your candor, even if we didn't always agree. You always had cheerful and intelligent musings. I share your interests in writing, culture, films, history, government, philosophy, etc. I'll miss your articles and the discussions that followed!

    Best of luck in your endeavours -

    Arleen

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  37. Hi Jamine,
    My name is Lauren I am 16, homeschooled, and striving to be more like our blessed Savior each day. I just began reading your blog a few weeks ago and love it!

    I have a question for you:
    Why does your family no have a Christmas Tree? Our family doesn't do Easter egg hunts, or Halloween either. But we had never heard of the Christmas tree having negative connotations.

    Thanks so much for your time
    In Christ,
    Lauren

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  38. culinary school is such a great idea for an associates degree! i would love to be able to work as a chef or run a restaurant kitchen, when (or, if) i was not able to use my bachelor's degree.

    right now i have a b.a. in english, as well as a one-year certificate in graphic design. oddly enough, i found a job doing design at a publishing company. i also had a co-worker who considered learning to be a cake decorator (in a supermarket, or for a caterer) after she left our company. she had a b.a. in journalism.

    i'm glad you got a sister. i always wanted one too, but instead i grew up with three excellent first cousins who were like sisters to me.

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  39. We'll be getting your book! And congrats on the little sister!

    ~J

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  40. Hello Jasmine,

    I just saw your book in the Vision Forum catalogue. I am so excited to read about all of the beautiful things God has been teaching you.
    ~Sarah

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  41. Thank you so much Jasmine! For your blog, your book, this post, for being wonderful you. I didn't have any ideas as to what I wanted "Santa" to bring me this Christmas, but now I know! Joyfully At Home, by the famed author Jasmine Baucham.

    Oh, you are such an inspiration to so many young ladies like myself. I have attempted to start blogging, but I know that I will never achieve your level of excellence in wit and wisdom.

    The Lord bless you, and your family as you welcome your little sister home. I have three, and lemme tell you they are a bundle of fun, but very different than boys (I have two brother as well) ;)

    Thanks again for everything, be sure to share your love story when God brings your hubby into your life. Thanks for all the love you have shown others.

    Warmly,
    Kayla d'Escoto
    http://gardenedbygrace.blogspot.com/

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  42. I ordered your book yesterday and connot wait to read it!!! Congratulations! Also I am praising God with you for the baby girl that the Lord has placed in your home!

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  43. Congratulations, Jasmine! How wonderful to have a little sister. I myself was delighted to have another daughter (in September) and my oldest (also a girl) was SO thankful to finally have a bit more femininity in the house!

    I can't wait to see how God uses your book in the lives of people!

    And, how awesome is it that Paul Washer will be at the conference! My brother was recently saved and has been watching every PW youtube sermon he can. :)

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